Scratching the Surface

I have been at this "Head" post for 2 years already, yet I am still learning a lot. Human behaviour and their motivations are really interesting topics to delve into. At the end of the day, it is about communications and understanding your audience.. and empathy.. and love. Will not be doing this much longer I hope but there are many cherished moments. How I would like to be lighthearted and sure-footed. Was listening to the Google COO speak on TED a few weeks back- she admits that when it comes to work, women may have to make some difficult choices, but it can be done. URL: http://www.ted.com/talks/sheryl_sandberg_why_we_have_too_few_women_leaders.html

I guess the woman concerned have got to want it (whatever 'it' may be), do her darnedest and keep hitting the brick wall (... had read "The Last Lecture" last weekend). At this moment in time I am trying to rationalise being at work vs being home taking care of the children. Have been reading on this topic quite a bit: e.g. why many more girls than boys graduate but there are less women at the management or C-level. Like Sheryl Sandberg I will not be discussing these issues. Perhaps my angle is to advise my girls. Stay on the job because you want to (not because you have to). Always have options (and aim for financial independence as early as you can), and marry a man who is willing to put in the extra effort (and not one who expects you to do everything).

On the work front, looks like I'll still be in employment come January (2013). I may be able to afford around 2-3 months of unpaid leave (must work harder!) but would rather rip off the band-aid and deal with the potentially nerve-wracking household management without a helper. Now I have to get used to not having a maid around the house- must be prepared to put my back into the (house)work and ask for help when I need it. Wish me luck!