Monday, December 07, 2015

Unfinished Business

Once upon a time, when I was married, I told myself (and my married friends) how glad I was to be out of the dating game. Now I guess I'm back in the fray, albeit with more sense and wisdom (I hope).

So far (post-divorce) I have dated one person & ended it- we still remain friends. I was unable to push forward and could not take the risk of injuring myself emotionally. Sometimes it is best to leave things be. For the simple reason that it will not lead anywhere.

Currently dating a second person and learning about each other progressively. People are interesting.. and every time we get to know them there's always something new to discover.

I would like to be re-married one day, to whom I really have no clue. At the same time I am prepared to stay single if no one right comes along. So- how do I update that as a Facebook status, cheeky monkey?

One of my good friends suggested that we take the attention away from companionship & romance.. and re-focus on things like studies.. or self-development.. or projects with the children. Those could work, right? I will not mope or let my life pass, while waiting for this person. I will pursue my dreams and if the man comes along, so be it. If not, I will be complete and perfect on my own.

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