Whatever the Outcome
No matter what happens with me & S, I have decided that I will always be his friend. Because he is sweet and we kinda clicked in a certain way.
After going through divorce and being able to reach a mature age, I have decided to learn from my experiences.. be it good or bad.
There is no point being bitter about things. Mr Ex has his own positive points and flaws, like the rest of us. I just hope that he maintains his responsibility to the children & makes all the payments until they all finish their education. I'd rather not think too much when it comes to him. I get stressed up unnecessarily. If persuasion doesn't work then I will have to give him an ultimatum. Make the payments or I sell the house. Make the payments or I will relocate and you will never see the children again. The last resort (which will most likely be an empty threat) is I'll hand over the children to him & leave forever.
Maybe I am still bitter when it comes to Mr Ex. To my children, I would advise never allow anyone to use your name for anything.. even if that person is your spouse. At the first sign of distrust with valid evidence, cut ties immediately. Once a liar, always a liar.
Now I'm just looking for an honest person who will not expect me to support him financially. To hell with those type of men. It is not a wife's responsibility to support the family you idiot. If she does choose to bear some of the household expenses from her own bloody salary AND do freaking everything, then give her the bloody emotional or household support she deserves, damn it. I should have given Mr Ex a few kicks and slaps before we divorced actually. That may appease my anger. Now no matter what he does I will not in this lifetime return to him. Prison doesn't look good on me. Sorry.
What's next? Look forward and keep moving. Leave the past behind. You have progressed so much my dearest. Let's ACE this!
After going through divorce and being able to reach a mature age, I have decided to learn from my experiences.. be it good or bad.
There is no point being bitter about things. Mr Ex has his own positive points and flaws, like the rest of us. I just hope that he maintains his responsibility to the children & makes all the payments until they all finish their education. I'd rather not think too much when it comes to him. I get stressed up unnecessarily. If persuasion doesn't work then I will have to give him an ultimatum. Make the payments or I sell the house. Make the payments or I will relocate and you will never see the children again. The last resort (which will most likely be an empty threat) is I'll hand over the children to him & leave forever.
Maybe I am still bitter when it comes to Mr Ex. To my children, I would advise never allow anyone to use your name for anything.. even if that person is your spouse. At the first sign of distrust with valid evidence, cut ties immediately. Once a liar, always a liar.
Now I'm just looking for an honest person who will not expect me to support him financially. To hell with those type of men. It is not a wife's responsibility to support the family you idiot. If she does choose to bear some of the household expenses from her own bloody salary AND do freaking everything, then give her the bloody emotional or household support she deserves, damn it. I should have given Mr Ex a few kicks and slaps before we divorced actually. That may appease my anger. Now no matter what he does I will not in this lifetime return to him. Prison doesn't look good on me. Sorry.
What's next? Look forward and keep moving. Leave the past behind. You have progressed so much my dearest. Let's ACE this!
posted by elya at 10:27 pm
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