An Open Letter to A****

Dear A****, I do not like the way you look at me, as if I am beneath your social class. Somehow I hate that look. Perhaps that's my trigger. That was the look from all the mean girls I have encountered in my life. Even if factually I am below your social class, chances are I probably am, that is not the way to treat someone. Maybe that is just a 'look' that you have permanently etched in your face. Maybe you just do not like something about me. Maybe I came across as "not the sort of person" you'd be friends with.

Anyway, thanks for sharing your journey. We remain colleagues, albeit from different Schools. I hope I never ever have to see you ever again. I wouldn't know how to talk to you. You don't ever seem to want to talk to me either, so THANK GOD!

You will be archived as that person who doesn't want to make friends. No worries, not everybody can be my friend. We will both be okay in our own spheres. Goodbye.

Update: 23 Mar 2023

I saw her during a university event and she had this forlorn look on her face.

After the event, she did not join us for lunch while everybody gathered at the dining area.

As she was walking away, she appeared to be talking (or singing) to herself.

Whatever it is that she is facing, I hope she feels better soon.

I am sure she's a lovely person inside & I wish her the best.

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Since I have been experimenting with chat gpt, this is what it has to say

It's important to remember that everyone is equal and deserves respect, regardless of their social class. However, if someone is looking down on you or treating you poorly because of their perception of your social status, there are a few things you can do:

1. Remain confident: Hold your head high and don't let their judgment affect your self-worth. Remember that their opinion does not define you.

2. Don't engage in their negativity: Avoid getting defensive or retaliating with negative comments. Instead, stay calm and polite, and show them that you are above their judgment.

3. Show your worth: Prove them wrong by demonstrating your talents, skills, and achievements. Let them see that your social class does not define your abilities or potential.

4. Educate them: If appropriate, try to explain to them that social class is not a measure of someone's worth and that everyone deserves respect and kindness.

Remember, it's not about changing who you are or where you come from, but about standing up for yourself and asserting your worth as a human being.