Reality Bites

Reality Check: He left you at least a year ago when he decided to have a future with his girlfriend. Despite a loyal wife + 5 children + 16 years of marriage, he did not pause/ choke/ hesitate. He went ahead with dinner and dates, all the stuff people do after dates, took her to dine everywhere, drove her places, paid for her expenses, bought her rings and proposed. As I deal with anger/ disappointment/ betrayal, they're happily planning their wedding in May 2014. Who I am does not matter to him, never did. He loves the children and promised to pay for their expenses, that's fair. Whatever.

There is nothing left to process. He is very protective of her & has clearly made his choice. What's the use of hanging around?

You are a beautiful, intelligent, resourceful, strong woman. You will bring yourself together to take care of the children. For one man who stopped loving you, there are many more friends and family members who love you more than he ever did. Focus on their love & care & prayers and STAY STRONG! This pain will heal, you will forget him & life will go on.