Comfort in Silence

Currently learning to stay calm. Sometimes it is best not to say anything, because whatever that needed to be said has been said already. Sometimes you meet someone who loves silence as much as you do.

S gives me that comfort. Sometimes we would ride in his car in silence and not say anything.. and it would feel completely normal. With others this moment would seem quite awkward because you have nothing to say to each other. In the beginning, to me who is a perpetual chatter, this is far from normal. Now I have gotten used to it and it is quite interesting.

We do chat when there's something to chat about. We are learning about each other.

He is so very different from the guys I have dated before (not that I have dated many). Not quite sure which direction this relationship is going, but I have decided that I would remain friends with him regardless. A calming presence. My balance.