I'll Never Forget You
Just now we received news that a good friend (male & married) is now dating another friend (female + divorced) and he is planning to make her his second wife.. and they reconnected during an event held in late Feb 2016.
Am I the only one ringing alarm bells.. or is everybody completely oblivious to the fact that this will not work out?
Moral of the story: NEVER date a married man.
Now the wife is looking for the other woman because she wants answers. My stand? Cease and desist. DO NOT get involved.
N was the married man (the only one I ever considered)- he was one of those people who is sensitive and caring and loving and what-have-you(s) BUT he is already married to the love of his life. What does that make me? An extra @ spare tyre in his car boot?
I will always remember him.. yet this is one of those "I love you but I can't be with you" cases. Newsflash: my being in his life doesn't change anything. His quality of life may change for a brief moment when he is courting me.. and when he gets me ensnared he will start looking for the next person to marry. Please get that through your head. Reality sucks & is extremely hard to swallow.. yet it is what it is. Unadulterated pure stinking reality.
Go ahead. Be supremely angry with yourself. Be disappointed that you have stooped that low. Never judge anybody else from now on, because for a brief moment I was actually the other woman. No game plan, had jumped without any parachutes prepared & had crashed to earth shattered into five hundred million pieces.
He is happily married. He is a good father to his children. He has future plans not involving me. He is probably still hung up on his past quest (who married another) and I am still thinking of him why???????
Let go. Forget this. It doesn't improve my lfe in any way. CEASE and DESIST. There is nothing left here for you my dear, not least of all in the hands of a married man. If ever you marry him you will be a miserable angry woman. Let go. I can rise above this crap. He still irritates the hell out of me, so I will minimise my comments in the group. Now it is weird as if we are on 2 separate channels @ radar. So be it. I will survive. In fact I will do fantastic!
Am I the only one ringing alarm bells.. or is everybody completely oblivious to the fact that this will not work out?
Moral of the story: NEVER date a married man.
Now the wife is looking for the other woman because she wants answers. My stand? Cease and desist. DO NOT get involved.
N was the married man (the only one I ever considered)- he was one of those people who is sensitive and caring and loving and what-have-you(s) BUT he is already married to the love of his life. What does that make me? An extra @ spare tyre in his car boot?
I will always remember him.. yet this is one of those "I love you but I can't be with you" cases. Newsflash: my being in his life doesn't change anything. His quality of life may change for a brief moment when he is courting me.. and when he gets me ensnared he will start looking for the next person to marry. Please get that through your head. Reality sucks & is extremely hard to swallow.. yet it is what it is. Unadulterated pure stinking reality.
Go ahead. Be supremely angry with yourself. Be disappointed that you have stooped that low. Never judge anybody else from now on, because for a brief moment I was actually the other woman. No game plan, had jumped without any parachutes prepared & had crashed to earth shattered into five hundred million pieces.
He is happily married. He is a good father to his children. He has future plans not involving me. He is probably still hung up on his past quest (who married another) and I am still thinking of him why???????
Let go. Forget this. It doesn't improve my lfe in any way. CEASE and DESIST. There is nothing left here for you my dear, not least of all in the hands of a married man. If ever you marry him you will be a miserable angry woman. Let go. I can rise above this crap. He still irritates the hell out of me, so I will minimise my comments in the group. Now it is weird as if we are on 2 separate channels @ radar. So be it. I will survive. In fact I will do fantastic!
posted by elya at 11:15 pm
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