Thursday, May 26, 2016

Good Days and Better Days

When divorce happens and custody is granted to the mother.. and the father lives elsewhere & has to pay for the children's upkeep.. I suppose there comes a time when the father feels that he actually didn't have to spend a single cent on the children. He doesn't go through the hardship of raising the children.. of having to wake up at night when they have a high fever.. or having to bring them to the clinic.. or having to handle tantrums (the best ones are the angry whiny types).

Thanks to the wonderful law I may not see the money ever again. However I will report this to the courts next week. How far they will go with this.. well let's just say that I won't hold my breath.

In honest truth, the syariah law in Malaysia needs a major improvement. Most men get away with affairs and neglecting the family post-divorce. What do we do with these people? Waiting for God to punish them may take an awful long time.

To say that I am saddened is an understatement. I am in grief I'm fact. Completely clueless as to what will happen next. From now on I have to use my own salary to support the children. Hadn't planned on being the sole breadwinner actually. This bloody sucks.

Mr Ex is not a man who will rise up and meet my (our) expectations. In that I take complete responsibility.. in being gullible.. for being a poor judge of character.. for being so easily persuaded to have a large family (my foot) by someone who turned out to be one whom I really didn't know at all.

What do I do? Go on. Consciously. With complete awareness of my situation.. and the unfortunate thing may be that I have to let go of all romantic attachments.. because I wouldn't want 'the romantic interest' to be saddled with my issues.

Oh well.. there are many different forms of happiness, yes? Let's look forward. Be strong and stand tall. Here's to flexible planning *sob*

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