Marriage Expectations
When I do get married, what are my expectations?
I would like someone who can take care of my heart, someone whom I can trust.
I would like the union to be beneficial to both of us i.e. make us both better persons.
Number 3, my daughter, asked me to look for a good looking man to be her new father. Personally I don't go for looks but I would like someone who can make me laugh.
Of course the other stuff are a given: no criminal records, do not expect me to give him any money... and no physical abuse.. (among others).
Are my expectations too low?
Oh- I would also like someone who is single.. and one who is kind.. and responsible.. (hmmm.. the list probably could go on if I let it.. haha)..
That's about it really. The rest can be worked out as we go along.
Such as:
- his future plans & whether I fit into the picture
- his expectations of me as his wife e.g. cooking skills, dress code, involvement in external (non-family) activities, my future plans
- his financials
- his family approval of me
- whether he sees me as someone who can be his companion for the rest of his life (which is a bloody long time if he is not that into me)
- whether he is comfortable with my 'achievements' which is just related to work actually, but they can intimidate lesser souls
I would like someone who can take care of my heart, someone whom I can trust.
I would like the union to be beneficial to both of us i.e. make us both better persons.
Number 3, my daughter, asked me to look for a good looking man to be her new father. Personally I don't go for looks but I would like someone who can make me laugh.
Of course the other stuff are a given: no criminal records, do not expect me to give him any money... and no physical abuse.. (among others).
Are my expectations too low?
Oh- I would also like someone who is single.. and one who is kind.. and responsible.. (hmmm.. the list probably could go on if I let it.. haha)..
That's about it really. The rest can be worked out as we go along.
Such as:
- his future plans & whether I fit into the picture
- his expectations of me as his wife e.g. cooking skills, dress code, involvement in external (non-family) activities, my future plans
- his financials
- his family approval of me
- whether he sees me as someone who can be his companion for the rest of his life (which is a bloody long time if he is not that into me)
- whether he is comfortable with my 'achievements' which is just related to work actually, but they can intimidate lesser souls
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