Seeking Perfection

On the radio this morning an ustaz was discussing the challenges in a marital relationship and the importance of being grateful (for our spouse). Ultimately, in treating each other well, we seek Allah's pleasure upon us. The ustaz mentioned something along the lines of.. who are we in our imperfections, to request (demand even) for a perfect spouse. Are we so great and free from fault that we deserve the best who has ever existed. So the key is sabr (patience) in the daily communications and dealings with our significant other, and seek Allah's forgiveness always for our transgressions.