Nothing Wrong

There are various elements to a person, I have realised.

There is really nothing wrong with anybody, only the choices one makes. The choices are just that: choices. No matter the rhyme or reason. Remember this always, to manage the hurt. It is a situation. Do not be immersed in speculation. IT IS WHAT IT IS.

So if a person is not ready to commit, then he is simply NOT ready to commit. Nothing else to it. Judging or speculating or commenting will not be appropriate.. or helpful.. or change anything.

The only thing to take away from this is: a lesson has been learnt. A person is a person and as a friend, you try to accept the conclusion. Why not.

There will be some space/ moment required to re-adjust (say, from lover to friend), but it is totally achievable. Factually.

Hold your head up high, my girl. You have been the best lover anyone could have asked for. I promise.