The Total Sum of Things

Nearing 2 years, can't wait. Things are coming together nicely, in the circumstances.

The children are pretty settled. We are coping and doing our best. Thinking positive all the way. There are moments when I blow my top, but less now than before (I'd like to think).

Was in a conversation this morning with a friend. His questions got me thinking about the 'big picture' about our divorce.

On Paper: There was a third party/ an affair

Reality: We have fallen out of love & no longer want the same things

His Story: Husband neglect that drove him away

My Story: Breach of promise/ trust

Who is right and Who is wrong? It doesn't matter any more. It's true. It really doesn't matter any little bit. Unless of course Mr Ex wants to reconcile & we have to open this can of worms. Which I won't. Because it is no longer worth fighting for. So I will bury these remains deep in the darkest tombs and forget about it. IT IS OVER.