Friday, July 08, 2016

"Jodoh"

Using Google translate the word is defined as "mate" in English. I would disagree because jodoh refers to someone who one is fated to marry & be with. The closest definition would probably be "soulmate" but not quite, because in some cases we (I) end up not marrying our (my) soulmate. Jodoh has nothing to do with love but more related to fate. It is who a person is meant to be in holy matrimony with.

Having said that, I am in a quandary.. Who is my jodoh? It doesn't matter much really, because this is not my work, but God's plan. Will let it be, and follow the flow with S. No use getting my hopes up too high and then having them dashed.

I do love him (but then love can be nurtured)... and on my side I still need to be a more patient person. Let's not do the screaming banshee approach when handling the children shall we?

So the game plan now is.. improve myself (a whole lot more) and leave the jodoh business to the Creator. May I be granted someone kind-hearted who can take me as I am. That's about right, I would say.

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