Sunday, April 17, 2016

All of Me

When you're in love, all the feelings are magnified. Love, longing, irritation, jealousy, sadness, fondness.. are all mixed up in a proverbial hot soup. When does it stop? Do the feelings ever stop? Maybe they do. After marriage some feelings get dumbed down (I guess) because both become more secure in the relationship, but I do hope that in my next marriage (whenever or to whomever) the feeling of love (and respect) will burn bright all the time.

Am I easy to love? (Is ANYBODY easy to love?)

I had asked this question to Mr Ex a few months after the divorce. He either forgot to answer or refused to answer because the message remain unreplied.

The way I figured is that each of us is not easy to love. Only the person who believes or is silly enough to get into hot soup with you will do their best to understand and match your complexity. In this (I think) lies a powerful concept.. done right the union can be the most fulfilling experience anyone has ever had in their lives.

So, where do I find this person????

The person who will help me unpack my baggage. One who promise to love me in my good and bad and horrendously terrible days. A person who (dare I say it) loves me and whom I can love. Someone who can accept my children and take me as I am.. and someone who I can accept. (Who's this "lucky" person anyway?)

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