No Hurry

Whatever the course of action I take right now will depend on what I want in life and its impact on my children. Whatever else is secondary. Whether we will marry or settle down is immaterial. If he loves me enough I suppose he will wait? Or he won't. The point that I want to make here (and the point that I think S is trying to tell me is).. live my life & do my thing. My choices cannot be dependent on him or my mother or my friends or anybody else.

Once I have decided I have to take responsibility on the outcome & rough it out, because that is part of the package. That's it really.