Chink in the Armour

Being single revealed to me the reality of many married men. They are mostly lonely and seek some kind of attention from the opposite sex. The key is not to entertain or prolong the interest, lest they think that there is a slight chance of something else developing.

On the other hand, I have met many single women who enjoy receiving and giving attention. No harm in it, as long as they know how to draw the line.. and the wife doesn't find out.

I try not to judge either party- I had gotten involved with someone's husband before, but stopped when I figured out that he loves his wife and there is no way I could manoeuvre against the jealousy; time limitations; differences in treatment and whatever-else-have-yous.. and the fact that she is almost perfect does NOT help. My point is that it could happen to anybody (even to someone so vehemently opposed to polygamy), so chill.

The main point is: nobody's perfect. If we are, the we would be God. So there.