Done

Finally I said what I wanted to say to her.. well I messaged, I didn't actually say it to her face.

I said I am not comfortable when she messages S personally at times.. and I did apologise for feeling that way.. so I expressed it to her instead of avoiding her like everybody else. (Maybe I should have done the latter, because she just does NOT get it).

She said she knew him first before me, and he is like a brother to her.. and that if I love S, I should trust him. Said with such bravado, in that blood/ sibling trumps girlfriend. (Ironically this 'brother' thing is self-proclaimed).

Another message came in shortly from a dear friend, saying that I should just ignore her. DONE and DONE! Goodbye SS.