Black & White

Life, and people, are not black & white.

Not referring to the skin colour, but the dimensions (not size + height either).

Just saying that things may not be clear cut, or cut and dry.

There is depth in character, there is context in an event, there are explanations that one should seek.

In my books, when my significant other loves someone else, he doesn't love me anymore.

But men would argue that his/ their heart has the capacity to love more than 1 woman.

I once dated a married man, shortlived, and he LOVED his wife to the moon and back.

And here I am, interfering and secondary. Couldn't stand the ethical dilemma & broke it off.

Hubby defended himself and said that all these other women were his friends.

As of now, he has effectively let go of all these "relationships".

My mind is made up, and I know what I want to do.

When a mess up like this happens, he no longer can control or influence my decisions.

I go on "vigilante" mode & forge my own path, thank you very much.