Friday, May 03, 2024

Character Flaw

Each one of us is imperfect. No question about that.
I am the most imperfect of all. I have quirks, weird bits and LOTS of limitations.
At what point does a character flaw becomes unbearable?
When it borders on fraudulence, or excess, or blatant disregard of polite society? (here I am rambling, so if you want to incorporate any Freudian concepts, feel free to comment)

What were our non-negotiables?
For me it is disloyalty. His is too, if I remember correctly.
Hubby had said if he wants to marry someone else, he would tell me 
& I may apply for divorce if I want.
However he had maintained relations with at least 3 women and provided constant (and shady) emotional support. They were not merely friends but more than that. On the night before we were to marry he sent a message to Aiza that he would love her forever. Not cool Bro, not cool at all!!!

In his mind he may consider himself a confidant, they seek him out when facing issues with their husbands, OR he seeks them out when he has issues with me. This type of relationship constitutes cheating in my book, but he calls it FRIENDSHIP. Maybe it is friendship on a faraway planet, but definitely not on earth. If I had messaged those same words to someone's husband, I will be ASSASSINATED by their wives. No way I would live to see another day. His messages to them would not have passed the "mother" test: i.e. would you allow your mother to read this text?

Well serves me right because I always seek out bad boys. Definitely got them. Twice to be exact. I have learnt my lesson. Never again. Bad boys, good boys, they are not at all convincing. I will remain single for the rest of my life. No men/ males/ boys for me. Thank you very much.

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