He is my friend

As a person, he is kind and helpful.

He's the sort of person who you can call at any time and he will come to help you out.

For this reason alone, I am glad to give him back to the world and all his friends (males & females alike). 

I have noticed that me being the wife is counter-productive to him, due to my needs and jealousy, and suspicion. Nobody needs that. 

As a friend, I will be happy to be on the side, as an observer.

He is free to contact anyone, to date anyone, to feel anything that he wants to feel about anyone.

Being a wife had made me an unreasonable and controlling person.

I am tired being that person. I am letting go to let him be happy.

Am I happy? Yes I have decided that I should be.

I may need to take a moment to mourn, and be angry, and go through my phases, 

and once I am done I will be completely and fully alright.