Sometimes Smart People do Stupid Things

There are certain things that I have done in life that I wasn't proud of.

No rhyme or reason behind the action, just mere foolishness, or rebound, or mob mentality, or bravado, or brain-body disconnect, without regard to the consequences.

My point is: if adults are that foolish, why do we impose exacting high standards on our children and teens? It is a very tough time to grow up, trying to handle the volume of information available, and with the world's eyes all on you/ them, all judgemental-ly on you.

I found out that a person I dated post-first-divorce has been circulating our video call to others. Like I was a mere conquest. That, I probably was. I'm presuming that this was shared to male friends as bragging rights. At this age. Well, men will be men I guess. Have all the fame that you want. Snicker about me all you want. Circulate all the videos or screenshots that you want. I cannot stop all those things. The internet had enabled super fast communication and forwarding, I really cannot do anything about it. I resign myself to the fact that I have done something completely stupid to even contact this despicable person. Just one warning to you my friend. You have 6 daughters to take care of. Good luck.