She's not responsible for my life

She is not responsible for my life, or his life. She is responsible for her life, and the life of that child of hers, and to some extent the life of her husband.

Yesterday we divorced, and technically she is not responsible for that too. Marriage is between the 2 of us, and the promise we made to each other. Everybody else is immaterial.

It is not possible to turn back time. It is what it is.. We make the necessary choices, and take responsibility for them. This churning feeling will continue for a while more, before everything settles.

At one point I will forgive everyone who has wronged me. 

Perhaps I have.